You are my heart and my soul that is not attached to me at all.
Above statement is real and applicable to a lot of love relationships. How many times we loved and adored people that is/was not attach to us at all. Unsatisfied needs (regardless of its nature) in the love department automatically implies that love is complicated, hurtful, joyful, fulfilling. Love can empty our souls and leave a hole in it. Not really. Not knowing what one gets him/herself into leads all above mentioned problems.
We all love the best way we can. We do not love based on the stories we hear. We love our own way. When it comes to deal with love we try to handle it the most socially acceptable ways. Friends start feed us with their 2 cents advice: Oh, you are so cheap. Oh, why would you do that? Oh, do you have low self esteem or something?
Falling in love is the healthiest feeling. However, most of us only know how to handle it unhealthy way. Love does not mean a certificate to marriage. Love does not mean you will get what you want. Mutual love can bring expected outcome or it just simple can make you realize “You are my heart and my soul that is not attached to me at all.”
The conclusion: Love itself is not as complicated. We make it complicated. Just do not try fit love into the most acceptable or accepted box.
Above statement is real and applicable to a lot of love relationships. How many times we loved and adored people that is/was not attach to us at all. Unsatisfied needs (regardless of its nature) in the love department automatically implies that love is complicated, hurtful, joyful, fulfilling. Love can empty our souls and leave a hole in it. Not really. Not knowing what one gets him/herself into leads all above mentioned problems.
We all love the best way we can. We do not love based on the stories we hear. We love our own way. When it comes to deal with love we try to handle it the most socially acceptable ways. Friends start feed us with their 2 cents advice: Oh, you are so cheap. Oh, why would you do that? Oh, do you have low self esteem or something?
Falling in love is the healthiest feeling. However, most of us only know how to handle it unhealthy way. Love does not mean a certificate to marriage. Love does not mean you will get what you want. Mutual love can bring expected outcome or it just simple can make you realize “You are my heart and my soul that is not attached to me at all.”
The conclusion: Love itself is not as complicated. We make it complicated. Just do not try fit love into the most acceptable or accepted box.
WHAT DO YOU THINK LOVE IS?
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No_the_Game
P.S I am not back to STL yet.
13 comments:
This is what we call taking responsibility for your actions. People have a habit of blaming their hurt on others as opposed to taking responsbility for their own actions and feelings.
Good to see you've come to that conclusion.
Your postings always seem to be so in tune with my feelings at the moment.. it's scary.
"You are my heart and my soul that is not attached to me at all" - unfortunately this DOES relate to me right now. It's really hard when the "attachment" isn't there. Especially when you've made him/her the most important person in your life.
wow that was a great post. Love, hmmmm. I need to think about it. Actually I need to wake up first!
Oh my gosh...another post that's totally on point. Why do we make love such a complicated thing? It is unrealistic to think love alone is enough to maintain a relationship. It's a nice foundation but other things come into play.
Heh...I feel you on the 2 cent advice too..:-) I've felt like a slut many a day.
Hemingway, nice post!
"You are my heart and my soul that is not attached to me at all."
Did you come up with that. Oh, I am feeling that. Truly feeling it.
We do complicate love, don't we? Sigh...
What is love? I'm going to have to think on that.
Nice post... it has me thinking.
This is a great post. I think love is understanding, sharing, respecting, teaching, and wanting to be with each other.
Hey babygirl!
It's been so long since I have had that angst around love, but I really liked your post.
Great post! Really logical and profound!
This year, dating, it's the first time in my life that I've not worried about falling in love, or being in love. Don't know if I even want to again. It's made things much easier. I do miss the butterflies, though.
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Prata
I think maturity comes by age.
liya
Just trust your own instincts not others. It is useful to listen and make your own decisions. If you know what I mean.
Baby D
I am glad you think I can put something of substance on the blogland.
E
Believe me I am sick and tired of ppl telling me what to do or act. 2cents advice..... Hate them....
GeorgiaPeach
Unfortunately I came up with that. It is how I felt :(( It is not fun to feel that way.
Brea
If you really believe you do not know what is love .... U r lying to yourself. We all want and need love. DO we all get it???? I really do not know.
cymple
Welcome to my blog world. I am glad you r here and like what you read.
Bossmack
Oh Baby was around :))) Am I qualified Boss?
Rose
Ms.Rose I love reading your comments. They are much appreciated.
Miz_jj
I am glad you do not have those feelings. They are not great things to feel.
Aisha
I am glad you check my this blog as well.
BipolarPrincess
Welcome to the board. I do not think I get butterflies. I have so much in my mind and in my plate I think I am gonna withdraw from that part of game.
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